Hey! how do you keep yourself happy all the time? How are you so positive all the time? How do you look so good and refresh? I talk to people, I love talking to people and their strengths and I’d read this type of question every time people ask me.
A few days back I met and talked to one of my friends Toni over an email, we talked long about how the coronavirus time is difficult and is different for everyone. Her husband lost the job because of this her husband lost his 12 yr old job. And she told me how she is coping with the situation having hope and positivity, and this attitude impacted me with so much positivity. The strength to keep going is what makes a person look so strong.
But this is not about anyone, in particular, does, because the impact is what we have on people when we are in our real selves.
So, here the list of things to how to have a positive impact on people:
Smile whenever people reach to you. a generous and polite way to deal with people, this doesn’t mean you can’t have your voice. But we can always be generous to people who are generous to you or maybe not. When the person with low esteem sees you all the time smiling and polite, they learned something from you, and you’re already an influencer. The simple and best way to have an impact.
You may have heard so much about being kind, polite, and sympathetic to people, but do we really follow these rules? Sounds cliche! Kindness is the act a human being can earn through his experiences and never judging other’s experiences. And being kind to others is about giving without expecting. Being kind to a friend or a foe costs us nothing. So be kind to everyone regardless of their acts.
- TAKE A LEAD
Take the lead whenever theirs an opportunity. Most people can’t able to decide and confident enough to take the lead. But this act is one of the biggest in impacting people with you positive people.
- BE THE REAL YOU
Being yourself is so easy that people usually ignore it. We always try to be someone else, and we think we love ourselves. Here’s the journey starts when you don’t know who you are and you really need to explore yourself. But when you are comfortable and confident your own skin and the way you are inside actually, people will automatically love that side of yours instantly. And when you influence someone with such a strong “real you” personality there’s no way someone not attracted to you, but can jealousy, and this shows you’re already winning.
- CONFIDENT IN WHAT YOU DO
The last and common thing everyone around us teaching us, whether its situations or relationships or living. Being confident in whatever you do and able to face every situation with common sense and right sight. Confidence can take you to the places you never thought of. And who knows if you positively impacted on somebody.
These are the 5 efficient ways to have a positive impact on the people you meet. Tell us what do you think about it, what kind of personality you are to?
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