Women all over the world have power to do whatever they want to do in life. But, often we women represent ourselves as something less, as something not important. here are the things we have to top doing to represent our worth:
VALIDATIONS AND FEEDBACKS
Hey Girl! stop doing it now. I know we have been raised and trained on how to live under societal pressure and how to be perfect. Sometimes we seek permissions and feedbacks from the people we don’t even know . Seeking outer satisfaction shows that we lack self-trust. It is so normal for us to be less. And it also shows that we care, we care that everyone should be happy. But so they care? Are you happy?
Women apologize everywhere, if we ask for more we apologize or if less we apologize. even if someone hurts you, you start your statement with apologizing. The point is when something is absolutely not right for you, say it straight, without a doubt. You’re here to spread love and have the power of all the things God has given you, whether your voice or actions.The most unnecessary sorry moments are:In a meeting when another person is not here, you apologize first to call them on the meet. But you both selected the time slot right. It the responsibility of that person to be on time, apology here shows a lack of confidence. Learn to have confidence, the first strong thing to build in yourselfAnother example can be, ”I’m sorry I’m not able to take your call right now.” (shows we’re polite ) instead “I’m not able to take the call”(still polite).
Women use words that will make them sound less important. Like using the word ”just.” ”I just wanted to stop you for a minute.” That simple word sends the subtle message that our statements and opinions aren’t that important.This one sentence says it all! By using the words “just”, “I feel”, and stating that I may not have as much expertise as perhaps others do, I have reduced my credibility to almost zero! How many times have you heard women communicate this way? How many times have you yourself used this type of minimizing language? Exactly!
We see ourselves to be less skilled and not appropriate for the things we ever want to achieve. We always have this belief (some beliefs we have to unlearn) that we should be fully skilled before we get to any job, whereas men say, “I will get that job and figure it out when I will be there.” We all have self-doubts, but wavering the decisions that will help you in your career will result in losing them.
We are so underconfident when it’s time to say ‘NO’. though it seems easy, but not easy in practice. But it’s okay. Learn to say ‘yes’ to the things that matter to you and right for you. For every ‘YES’ there will be ‘NO’ for other things. And slowly you’ll own the ‘NOs’ and embrace the YESs. Also we women think too much and we worry too much. At some point, you have to stop feeling so concerned about what people will think about you.
Hey! I totally understand there’re always hurdles to cross and sometimes we feel so low that we lose the awareness of our self-worth. But I know there are a lot of things you want to achieve, but somehow you ended up going with the flow with no goals. But Babe! this is your life. One life with powers. Even the people with disabilities are our role models now, there’s a lot to learn from them, you’re not less than anyone. Make goals, commit, and achieve. This is the best ‘YOU’ can do for ‘YOURSELF’. Live a little for yourself.
Stop paying attention to the things which no longer serves you and your happiness. The only way to easily get distracted is to focus on unnecessary things. Learn to focus on goals and the things which actually need your time and effort. It can be your business, your body, your mindset, your life.
OVERANALYSING AND OVERTHINKING
We as a woman overthink a lot of things, sometimes it’s good, but most of the time its nothing than a distinction, keeping our focus on how and why in spite of what. We worry a lot before even doing it and the next day we lose our spark of doing it. To handle this, we need boundaries and time management.
FAILING TO BUILD A PERSONAL BRAND
A strong personal brand will help you get what you want whether you’re working in a company or running one of your own. The way to develop a personal brand is to deepen your own self-awareness. What makes you stand out positively from other people?A personal brand is an asset that defines the best things about you. It’s the impression people have of you, and the impression you want them to have. Be your own Boss.Spread the love, share you story with us and other women, because together we are stronger. Let’s connect! Follow @anecdotes_1
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